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22.February.2015

50 Shades of Confusion

A flood of attention has been given to the release of the cinematic version of 50 Shades of Grey. Since that time, social media platforms have been bombarded with articles and debate about the intentions in the story. Dr. Miriam Grossman, a well-known psychiatrist, asserts that the film actually “blurs” the lines between what is healthy and unhealthy in relationships, creating “confusion”. In the midst of this swirling debate, it is crucial that we return to a conversation around the basic rights of every human being.

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Topics: Building Connections and Intimacy, Consent, domestic violence, Boundaries

28.September.2014

Building Connections and Intimacy

In an episode of New Girl, Jessica Day (played by Zooey Deschanel) has lost her job as a teacher.  Dejected and confused, Jessica is feeling vulnerable. When a gorgeous guy named Sam approaches her in a bar and asks, “Excuse me, are you Katie?” she impulsively decides that she will pretend to be this Katie, whom Sam has only met online. When Sam makes his intentions known—he is only in it for the casual sex - Jessica doesn’t bombard him with questions like: “Have you been tested for STIs?” or “How many people have you slept with?” Instead, hoping to avoid awkward questions, she assumes she can trust him. As the story continues, Sam eventually finds out that Jessica is not Katie but decides he’d like to continue their “arrangement.” Jessica, however, is beginning to have feelings for Sam. She determines that things either have to get more serious, or should end.  

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Topics: Building Connections and Intimacy